Hello, Hello Beautiful and Magical Soul-
Thank you for being with me on this journey around sisterhood wounds, healing the sisterhood wound, and being in this space with me as we unpack with love all this energy. Your feedback has been so wonderful and it’s been really beautiful to have these open conversations.
I AM grateful for YOU being here.
There’s something I’ve been sitting with for a long time now and I finally spoke it out loud in my latest podcast episode.
It’s about feminine leadership.
And more specifically… why true feminine leadership has nothing to do with hierarchy.
No pedestals.
No power-over.
No positioning yourself above others in order to be seen, followed, or validated.
If you’ve ever felt uneasy in healing or spiritual spaces or even ones that claim to be “conscious,” “embodied,” or “feminine”there’s a reason for that. Your body knows when domination is being recycled, even when it’s wrapped in soft languaging.
This episode is an honest, grounded exploration of what leadership looks like when it’s relational instead of positional.
When it’s felt before it’s understood.
When it lives in frequency, nervous system safety, and embodiment…..not performance or visibility.
I weave in and out of topics around:
Why leadership rooted in hierarchy quietly recreates harm
The difference between empowering sovereignty and creating dependence
Leadership as invitation, not extraction
How regulated, embodied presence naturally calms, steadies, and activates remembrance in others
Indigenous and shamanic perspectives on listening to the field while knowing when to speak, and when not to
Why true leadership makes people more self-trusting, not more reliant
And we also name something tender and important within the sisterhood wound.
Many women aren’t “resistant to community.”
They’re resistant to unsafe dynamics their bodies remember.
In this episode, I speak to the women who have been harmed by hierarchy, comparison, savior roles, relevance-chasing, and subtle power games and I offer another way.
A slower way.
A quieter way.
A cleaner way.
One where leadership is rooted in consent, integrity, nervous system awareness, and reverence.
One where leading and receiving are both sacred roles.
One where truth activates truth WITHOUT fixing, healing, or rescuing anyone.
And if you’ve never resonated with the word leader, I want you to hear this:
Leadership doesn’t require a title.
Your presence already leads.
Your clarity already leads.
Your embodiment already leads.
If this speaks to you, I’d love for you to sit with me in this conversation.
You can listen to the full episode here:
E197 on Spotify
E197 on iTunes
And if as you listen, something in your body softens…
If you feel a sense of recognition, relief, or quiet remembering…
That’s the work I do.
Whether inside my community space or in an intimate 1:1 three-month container, I work with women who are ready to lead and REMEMBER…..not from authority, but from coherence, self-trust, and embodied truth.
No hierarchy.
No pedestal.
Just resonance.
The future of feminine leadership was never meant to sit above us, but meant to WALK alongside one another.
If you feel compelled to share, I would LOVE to hear how this new episode landed for you. I also invite you into to asking any questions you may have as I will be answering those on the next and last installment of this series around sisterhood/healing the sisterhood wound.
As always, please take what resonates and leave the rest.
Hugs,
Nichol
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